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Friday, August 5, 2011

THE BECKERS ARE COMING!

About four years ago, I met one of the coolest and most fun girls I have ever met.  She and I met in California as we waited for our men to arrive home from a 6 month deployment.  Her name is Lauren Becker. 

Just a little bit about Lauren.  Lauren is one of the most fashionable, decorating savvy, do it her own way people I know!  We are complete opposites in that manner.  I choose simple, basic, color matching decor and clothes, and she and her family and home are always STYLIN'! 

Example : Our 25 Week Pregnant Pictures

            Simple                                                                            Stylin'
Okay, now before anybody says anything about my thinking she's better or anything like that, know that I am completely confident in my own style.  While that might come easily to Lauren, we'll just say that it doesn't for me and leave it at that!

Get it? 
While we couldn't be on any farther points when it comes to style, we are on the same page on the things that count.  We both believe in a Christ-centered home, where our husbands are the head while we are the heart.  We believe in raising children to be productive adults who are not reliant upon others for their own well-being and happiness.  We believe in living debt free and buying what you can afford with cash.  We believe that we were put on this earth for a purpose and we strive to fulfill the will that God has for us!  But most importantly, we believe in the power of music and HAVING FUN! 

Lauren has taught me one of my most life lessons.  I have always known that I am a very blunt speaker.  I tell things like I see them.  Over the years, I have worked very hard to learn to curb my tongue and speak gently but unfortunately, I still have times when I am quite frank and sharp.  In these moments, I will generally preface what I am about to say with "this might come out wrong" to which she would always reply, "Jeanne, don't worry, I know your heart".  Phew, what a relief!  Finally, someone who knew me well enough to know my intent.  She has taught me to give people the benefit of the doubt and look to their heart before their words. 

So, back to our story.  In short, we became super good buds.  We moved to Italy and they moved to Hawaii.  Could we be any farther apart?  Now, 3.5 years later, three kids for me, one and a half (she's pregnant) for her, and we will finally get to see each other again on Monday! 

She and her son, Roman, are home visiting her parents for 10 days.  When she called and asked if they could come stay a night or two with us, I just about cried!  She is taking 1/5 of her days at home to drive three hours (with a one year old in tow) to come see us!  How cool is that!?!?!

So, needless to say, in true Jeanne style, preparations are being made and their will be a proper welcoming for them!  I AM SO EXCITED!!!!!!